Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with Vivian Cumins

Truly Authentic: Before The Voice, with Brooke Tilghman | Ep. 58

In the early years of her marriage, Brooke Tilghman wrestled with doubts and the desire to walk away. But God stepped in, restored her relationship, and began preparing her and her husband Todd for a journey they never expected—including Todd’s Season 18 win on The Voice. In this heartfelt conversation with Vivian, Brooke shares about marriage, adoption, homeschooling, and ministry, and how saying “yes” to God opened doors they never could have imagined. Together, they remind us that God doesn’t look for perfection—He looks for a willing heart. This inspiring episode will encourage you to trust Him with your story and believe that He can use ordinary people in extraordinary ways.
 
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Brooke Tilghman loves people. She loves community and authenticity. She is the mother of eight and the spouse of Todd Tilghman, the Season 18 winner of The Voice, an American singing reality competition television series.
Brooke desires a space for women to feel safe enough to take off their masks and be the true, authentic woman God created them to be. She desires transparency and truth to be the model for women. She also desires the church to resemble doing Life Together, not just a religious ritual. Her favorite things are Jesus, my family, praying, thrifting, talking, and sharing. She is a collector of kids, animals, books, shoes, and cool memes.
 
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Scars that Speak: How to Heal the Wounds of Rejection | Ep. 57

When rejection cuts deep, it leaves wounds and scars that can shake our sense of worth—or even make us question God’s love. In this powerful conversation, Vivian brings her trademark energy as she sits down with Ginger Stache, Chief Creative Officer at Joyce Meyer Ministries. Ginger opens her heart about the day she discovered her husband’s long-hidden addiction, the heartbreak and sense of rejection that followed, and the hard journey of fighting for her own healing first. Vivian shares her own experiences with rejection, creating a raw, relatable dialogue that reminds us: people may fail, but God never does.
Together, Vivian and Ginger explore hope, restoration, and resilience, pointing listeners toward God’s promise to heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds (Psalm 147:3), as well as Ginger’s new book with Joyce Meyer, Healing the Wounds of Rejection, which offers guidance for moving forward with faith, confidence and the ability to trust again.
 
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Hanging out with Ginger is like lighting a creative sparkler. When she brings a story to life or encourages you to dream bigger, you’ll be propelled to unleash the best in yourself and activate it to help others. She’s the Chief Creative Officer at Joyce Meyer Ministries, and an Emmy Award-winning television producer, author, and leader who has traveled the world a few times over, sharing God’s love and heartfelt smiles each step of the way. You can see her on Joyce Meyer’s Enjoying Everyday Life television program and the Talk It Out podcast.
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Ambition vs. Surrender: Can Women Really Do Both? | Ep. 56

Can you really juggle career, family, and faith without losing yourself in the process? Erin Cluley, Creative Director at Joyce Meyer Ministries, Co-host of Joyce Meyer’s Talk it Out Podcast, and mom of two, joins Vivian for a heartfelt conversation about the tension between ambition and surrender. They open up about striving, burnout, and the pressure to do it all, while discovering freedom in setting boundaries and leaning on God. With honesty and encouragement, they remind us that balance isn’t about perfect schedules. It’s about walking closely with God, inviting Him into the everyday, and trusting Him to carry what we can’t.
 
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Erin runs on God’s Word and caffeine, and has equal parts love for pizza, Netflix, and the gym. She has a wild determination to know and love God—and to share that objective with others as a writer, collaborator, podcast contributor, and creative director for Joyce Meyer Ministries. She loves to keep things fresh and moving forward and treasures her ever-evolving roles as a wife, mother of two energetic kiddos, and a caring friend. If you need a hug and some Scripture-based encouragement, Erin’s your girl.
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Little Habits, Big Impact: How to Strengthen Your Marriage | Ep. 55

What if a stronger marriage didn't require grand gestures, but simple choices made every day? Vivian chats with author Arlene Pellicane about her book Making Marriage Easier and four biblical decisions that help couples enjoy one another and thrive. With insights like avoiding the "roommate trap," sharing daily compliments, and trying new adventures, this conversation offers real solutions with biblical truth. Discover how small habits can breathe new life into your marriage and build the vibrant, God-centered relationship you both deserve.
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Arlene Pellicane is a speaker, host of the Happy Home podcast, and author of several books, including Parents Rising, Making Marriage Easier, and Screen Kids (coauthored with Dr. Gary Chapman). Arlene has been featured on popular media outlets including The Today Show, Fox & Friends, Focus on the Family, FamilyLife Today, The 700 Club, and the Wall Street Journal. She is the spokesperson for National Marriage Week and has been happily married to her husband, James, for more than 25 years. Arlene earned her BA from Biola University and her master’s in journalism from Regent University.
Arlene inspires parents to raise children who are ready for life (not just playing video games). As an advocate of delaying smartphones and social media, her three children are living a revolutionary digital life and thriving. Arlene lives with her family in San Diego. 
Visit Arlene’s website to get a copy of her book, watch her podcast, and learn more.
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The Final Chapter: From Trauma to Happy Ending | Ep. 54

How do you heal when life shatters in an instant? Therapist and author Kimberly Haar shares her gripping story of surviving a brutal assault and kidnapping by her ex-husband, revealing how she discovered God's presence in her darkest hour. Vivian and Kimberly explore the practical steps to move from victim to survivor, the complex layers of forgiveness, and why healing begins with a choice. If you've ever wrestled with trusting God after trauma, this conversation offers hope for the journey ahead.
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Kimberly Haar, LPC, LMFT, is a survivor of domestic violence, a licensed professional counselor, and a licensed marriage and family therapist with nearly two decades of experience helping others find healing and wholeness in life. She holds an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from Southern Nazarene University and is a featured co-host on the Oasis Radio Network. Kimberly’s therapy practice is located in Tulsa, Oklahoma, where she continues to inspire hope and strength in those facing life’s challenges.
Kimberly is the author of Healing From Life’s Deepest Hurts: Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss, or Trauma
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The Enemy Wanted Her Silent: Worship Made Her Louder | Ep. 53

How do you worship God when your heart is breaking and life doesn't make sense? Contemporary Christian artist and author Myshel Wilkins shares her journey through eight miscarriages, revealing how worship became her weapon against despair. Drawing from her West African family's tradition of worshiping through grief, Myshel explains how choosing to magnify God in dark moments invites Heaven's response and torments the enemy who hopes we'll pull away from faith. Vivian explores the balance between bold prayer and surrendering to God's "no," while Myshel unpacks how trauma can sabotage our calling if we retreat into spiritual safety zones. Together, they discuss restoration, the Great Commission, and why God entrusts us with difficult seasons—not to break us, but to showcase His power through our testimonies. Whether you’re rebuilding from heartbreak or searching for balance, you’ll be encouraged to rise, shine, and conquer!
 
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For Myshel Wilkins, faith has been the foundation of her life. As the daughter of a Ghanaian mother and a missionary father, she grew up leading worship in churches around the world. But it was through personal heartache—years of infertility and eight painful miscarriages—that propelled her to know God’s strength and goodness in a deeper way. 
After college, Myshel toured as a vocalist with top Christian artists, including Mandisa, TobyMac, Matthew West, and Don Moen and was mentored by gospel legend CeCe Winans. But behind the spotlight, Myshel and her husband struggled with the hope of starting a family, even as they faced the heartbreaking possibility it might never happen. 
Myshel believes that experiences with profound grief or loss reveal our true character and beliefs. She cautions that the enemy attacks us with his lies when we are at our most vulnerable. Instead of questioning God's goodness or blaming ourselves, we should choose to "count it all joy" and run to God, trusting him fully, worshipping him passionately, and drawing closer to him than ever before.
In her new book, Arise, Shine & Conquer, Myshel shares true stories of pain, perseverance, and breakthrough. Blending personal testimony with biblical truth, she invites readers into the abundant, victorious life God has promised.
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The Kids Left Home: It’s Time to Party! | Ep. 52

What if the dreams tugging at your heart are actually God’s next big assignment for you? Vivian sits down with author Kate Battistelli to explore the unexpected, faith-filled adventure that awaits after the kids leave home. From her days on Broadway to homeschooling Grammy-nominated daughter Francesca Battistelli, Kate shares her quirky journey of saying yes when God called her and her husband to walk away from thriving theater careers. She and Vivian get honest about rediscovering your identity when “Mom” isn’t your main role anymore—and why this season could be your most purposeful yet. They unpack real-life struggles: reconnecting with a spouse who feels like a stranger, praying for prodigal children, and embracing self-care without guilt. If you’re wondering what’s next, this conversation will inspire you to meet the “after party” with faith, joy, and open hands.
 
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Kate Battistelli is the bestselling author of The After Party of the Empty Nest: Mom Is Not Your Only Name, The God Dare, and Growing Great Kids. She is one-third of the popular Mom to Mom Podcast. In addition, she is an honoree with She Leads Tennessee.
As a young actress in New York City, Kate had a life-changing experience, going from understudy to starring as Anna in the Broadway National Tour of The King and I opposite Yul Brynner for more than 1,000 performances. Kate and her husband laid down their careers in the Broadway theatre in answer to their first “God Dare”, moving out of New York City and into a life of homeschooling and home business. She lives in Franklin, TN, near her daughter Francesca and seven grandchildren. Kate serves women by encouraging them to step out with God into His irresistible future.
 
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Too Loud, Too Real, Too Much Fun: SisterTalk with Viv & Becca | Ep. 51

SisterTalk with Viv & Becca is a special edition of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast and is all about the third pillar to an abundant, balanced life: FUN! Viv & Becca are just two Oklahoma gals with a unique bond and passion for storytelling and encouraging women to embrace every season of life. 
 
Ever been told you're "too loud" and wondered if everyone else just got boring? Vivian and Becca dive into their latest life adventures, from precious grandchildren visits and retirement adjustments to hilarious library mishaps. Becca shares heartwarming stories about her grandkids playing "honey" and camping sleepovers, while Vivian opens up about creating structure in retirement and her upcoming celebration in wine country. Their conversation sparkles with laughter, nostalgia, and the comfortable joy of people who've known each other since childhood. This episode will leave you thinking about the relationships that have shaped your life and the importance of celebrating milestones together.
 
There is something for everyone in this segment and we guarantee you’ll find a topic that will put a smile on your face. So, grab your headphones and coffee and join us for some sister talk!
 
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VIVIAN CUMINS
Vivian Cumins is a writer, speaker, and host of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. She is also an Oklahoma native, a career professional, a military spouse, a stepmom to two adult kids, and a “Glammy” to five grandkids. Although her name means “LIVELY” Vivian admits she has not always felt lively. Her need to be perfect and in control led to an unbalanced lifestyle filled with work, self-inflicted stress and illness, depression, and anxiety.
 
In 2020, after years of striving and mental exhaustion, Vivian rededicated her life to the Lord and vowed to relinquish control and submit to God’s will. Her newfound faith and commitment were immediately put to the test when she had to trust God to provide healing from stage 3 melanoma. Though this was a difficult time, Vivian claims she would not change a thing.
That ‘wilderness’ season, she says, delivered her from a prideful spirit, set her free from captivity, and taught her how to give up control and trust God, embrace imperfection, and recognize, then recalibrate, the unbalance in her life. Today, Vivian not only shares her testimony of preparation and deliverance, but she also provides valuable lessons and helpful tips for actively seeking balance, which starts with making time for God, taking care of yourself, and sprinkling in some good old-fashioned fun
 
BECCA ROBINSON
Becca is married to her best friend of over 26 years; they have been blessed with three children, three granddaughters, a bonus daughter (daughter-in-law), and a bonus son (son-in-law). She is a writer and co-host of the SisterTalk with Viv & Becca special edition of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. 
 
Over seventeen years ago, her husband joined the Army and gave Becca the honorable title of “military spouse.” Although Becca has a career in health care, she loves being an Army wife and volunteering and mentoring military spouses. Becca also loves to laugh and meet new people. It has been said she makes friends wherever she goes. 
 
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